Rain, Rain, go away. Come again, no wait, stay.
Rain, or any inclement weather, has a bad reputation when it comes to weddings. Understandably so when you are trying to plan for an outdoor wedding. I get it. Over the years I've been part of many weddings where some sort of inclement weather has threatened to "ruin the party." On the contrary, I've been part of many more weddings that "bad weather" made them memorable!
I've photographed weddings in the midst of large scale tropical storms, unseasonal October snow, lightning storms, and unrelenting downpours. I've been part of weddings that have been threatened by tornado warnings and looming hurricanes. I remember each of them, vividly, because it represented a unique circumstance to alter the day.
A perfect day with the perfect light will always be memorable, that's a non issue. But those imperfect days where it may seem like everything is being ruined by weather, or anything for that matter, are just as memorable - if not more. Embrace it. Enjoy it.
It was an intimate wedding which didn't call for me to be around for more than a few hours. Winter, that week, had gone missing which left mild temperatures in the Lake Placid region. But the day before Danielle & Tommy's wedding the Old Man arrived back home. And he was apparently moody because he made the temperatures plummet, to below zero. Undeterred by the circumstances presented before them, Danielle & Tommy were determined to get some pictures outside - in the snow - and in -10 degree wind chills. I sometimes forget I'm involved as well, not even thinking about wearing gloves or the correct clothes to make it happen. I'm a 3rd wheel at weddings and I was determined to endure what my couple's do ... and this was no different. So we stepped outside ...
We fit a lot in those 3hrs I was there ... some getting ready, a first look, ceremony, portraits, and a portion of dinner. But it didn't feel rushed on my end. It's amazing what can be done in such a short period of time and when you are photographing a couple that are game for anything. I'm super proud of Danielle & Tommy making sacrifices to get some pictures that will easily transport them back to their wedding day when they view them in a decade. I couldn't feel my fingers as I changed a roll of film, but I think it was worth it.
You'll plan for months. Some of you will plan a lot more than others. But everyone will plan. You'll hope the day goes off perfectly. No issues or problems that come to light. Some will pray, all will hope. Nobody wants something to go wrong in any way, though nobody can guarantee that. You don't wish for mishaps, mistakes, or mess ups but they'll happen. Some minor. Some major. Every error, mess up, or mishap I have ever seen hasn't changed the end result of a wedding. Whether it's 2hrs or 12hrs, shit happens. And when it does, because it will, let it roll off your back like water off a duck's. Trust me on this one. Breathe. All will be good.
We got in the LYFT outside of the hotel on a 75 degree day in mid February in Philadelphia. 75. No one expected this weather. We had mentally planned for cold, possibly rain, possibly snow, but never sun and 70. It felt like we were cheating. It just felt odd. But it also felt so wonderful that it would line up with one of only 2 winter weddings this year. Ironically, the 2nd winter wedding was by far the coldest day of the year for me with temps below zero. Back to the LYFT ... we got in and told the driver where we wanted to go.
Driver: "Are you both getting married?
J&C: "No, we are getting married?
Driver: "Both on the same day?"
J&C: "No, to each other!"
J&C: "Thats why we said getting into the car that we hope you like gays!"
Driver: "wait, you are getting married to each other?"
Driver: "You are gay?"
We all kind of look at each other.
Driver: "I AM GAY TOO!"
Shouts of laughter from everyone fills the car.
From that moment on it was easily the best LYFT ride I've ever had. And I believe it was the same for Jenn & Christina. It was 20-25 minutes of pure fun, stopping here and there for some pics at planned locations. The weather was beautiful, the car ride was beautiful, and the people involved were beautiful. Sometimes, things don't go as planned at weddings. And sometimes, if you are lucky, the things that don't go as planned end up being the best part of the day.
(Thanks to my buddy Scott for 2nd shooting ... a couple images in the post were made by him)
Art is expressive. It's designed to make you observe, question, and react .. and not always positively. Good visual art tells a story without using words. Each person interprets what they are seeing differently, altering and skewing the story to their taste. An artist will utilize tools at his or her disposal to visually create what is going on in their mind, not yours. We are inundated daily with monotonous, conformed images that rarely provide any meaning except to look pretty. Therefore its easy to condemn something that doesn't look like everything else, and that's ok. We are brainwashed to do that with many things starting at an early age. Hence outcasts, weirdos, and those non conforming individuals we don't now how to label, so we gawk at.
In a bubble where "one click presets" and fabricated photography reigns, any challenge of the norm is always greatly respected by me. I think all artists strive to create a unique voice, but few will truly ever achieve it. Artistic boundaries are meant to be pushed, and the desire to do so is what keeps me going.